Here is my question.

This matter confuses me.

Knickers are small and thin, yes? I know there are all sorts but compared to armour or jeans they are small and thin.

So how come all kinds of things feel a million times worse without your knickers than with them?

A spanking is a big, old meanie, hard handed (or worse) event. A thin strip of cotton between your bottom and his hand should make no difference whatsoever. But who hasn’t cried out, “Nooooo” when he takes them down? And it so much worse after their removal than before.

And being put in the corner is horrid with one’s knickers on. It is embarrassing and silly and makes one feel tiny and a bit sulky and shy. So why on earth is it so much worse with no knickers on?

It is something he has seen before and if it is right after a spanking then it is not long since he saw your bottom and so why is it so shy making to be made to stand like that?

Having said that I realise that he has just seen it and why does he need to see it again? His memory cannot be that bad.

And sitting down on a thin strip of cotton or not – why does that matter?
But being made to sit with nothing on one’s lower half after being spanked hurts a horrid amount.

But this is the one that I really, really do not understand.

Why does one need to remove one’s knickers if one is about to be told off?

My bottom is nowhere near my eyes or my face. I know I look down but I don’t look behind me.

I don’t think he even considers how it makes me feel when he tells me to do that. I feel four times as shy and embarrassed as normal and it is almost impossible to argue back when one has no underwear on.

I will tell him what I have realised forthwith and there is bound to be an improvement in his technique. Maybe you should share this with yourself (if you are a Top) or your man (if you are a not-top) – it is bound to make all the difference.

Would you like another?