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If Anyone Ever Asks …

For me it is not the spanking he gives me, although that gets my attentions and calms me down. It convinces me that he means it and tells me that he will win.

It is the conversation that we have, that is what alters me. He speaks to me so lovingly and with such attentionĀ  that I believe what he says.

He makes me see myself in ways I never imagined. And he has more faith in me than I ever could, more faith in me than my family could have.

It is the love, the knowledge and the faith that is why this kind of relationship transforms me in a way no other relationship could.

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Bare Your Bottom

As requested by Rich in a comment and Himself in real life.

Living so far away from my lover there are times when he tells me to remove my knickers.

He tells me to remove them when I am in the corner which he can see. This is a very horrid and embarrassing thing. He watches me and I tug them down and he won’t let me leave them up even a little bit.


He tells me to take them off completely if I pull them back up without asking or sometimes if I am a bit uppity. It is difficult to be uppity when someone has told you to remove your knickers. It makes one a bit shy and hesitant to be knickerless. It is not just that he knows but also that he told me to do it. That is such a personal act. It makes me a little quiet to think of it.

He tells me to remove my knickers when he tells me squirmy stories but I may die of shyness if I tell you about that.

When I am with him the baring of my bum is out of my hands, with one exception.

Most of the time he does it when I am in position. I am curved over his knee, making a sullen S shape and I am sulky, angry, sorry, bratty or one of a million other moods. He may give me two or three swats and then down they come. He may do it briskly, a business like tug which I hate. It is like he does not even care that I want my knickers up; he thinks it is all his choice. I know it is but that lack of choice makes me feel so submissive and surprised.

He may do it before I end up bent over in one way or another. I stand in front of him because that is what he tells me to do and he reaches up and pulls them down. My head hangs low when he does this. Standing before him all bare is horrible and it is almost a relief when he bends me over the bed or his lap or a table.

The exception is rare but it does happen. I will write about this event a bit more at some point but for now I just want to tell you about how it starts.

I am in trouble for a specific offence. I know just what it is that I did and what the result will be. He tells me to get the cane (I have written about this properly, and I long to tell you all now, soon, soon) and to take it to the table. He further instructs me to bend over the table and put my dress up and my knickers down. That calm, lonely moment, that shame and lack of contact, that waiting and fear – all of that may be the worst time I am told to bare my bottom.


Thank you , Richard, for requesting this subject. I was surprised to find I had a gazillion pretty pictures on this topic and I have no idea why.


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My Responses To An Instruction To Bare My Bottom

But I thought you liked how I look with knickers on.

I am too well behaved to do that. Good girls always wear knickers.

But I thought you wanted to kiss me.

But why?

I can’t. I am shy.

Can’t I do it in a minute?

But if I take them down you’ll spank me.

I don’t want to.

But if I do that you will see my bum.

It is naughty to take your clothes off in front of other people and you told me to be good.

Why can’t you leave them up?

Shan’t.

But it will hurt anyway, even with my knickers up.

But you like these knickers

But other girls get to keep their knickers on.

Why do you have to be so mean?

Can’t I leave them up just a little bit?

(Follow up in two days. I can make you wait longer than I can make Himself wait!)

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My Run In With The Law


I have always wanted to see a police chase in real life, rather than just in films. I have seen lots of people sitting with a policeman (or woman) inside their car at the side of the road but I have never seen the actual chase or the lights on.

Until a few days ago when I was driving the car that was being chased.

It probably doesn’t count as a chase seeing as the moment the blue lights started flashing I almost burst into tears and pulled over very soon indeed. I was going a little over the limit (about 5 mph in a 70 zone) and was imagining myself going to prison or, even worse, being told off by a policeman.

As it turned out one of the bicycles on my roof was not fixed properly and was wobbling and the policeman was being wonderful and letting me and my friends know.

My friends fixed the bikes because they had put them up there and they are men so they could … you know … reach the roof. I sat in the car and recovered from my shock.

I am not good with being told off by people. I tend to cry, at least I think I would cry. I never get told off other than by Himself.

I think I am scared that all policemen will be like Tops from stories and they will look at me and know what I am and instead of being told off I would be flipped upside down and spanked.

But I know that is crazy and it could never happen.

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Happy Submission


This is a lump of life thoughts because I had a moment today where I realised a tremendous benefit in my life from the submission that I show (that I try to show) to Himself.

I suspect that girls like me are a type, that we have some kind of submission within us that we want very much to express and that we spend a lot of our lives trying to find a place and manner of submission. That sounded clinical but it isn’t.

We want to submit, we have a strong sense of guilt, we are great at feeling blame – we can be quite sad little creatures. we would not want to be any trouble but we have a rough time waiting for someone who loves us in the right way.

And then we meet him (or her) and we get told off in the right way and for the right things. We watch as we are fetched from where we were and taken to a new place that is safe and pure. I know that sounds vague but the alteration is so much, the landscape so new that it is hard to understand the change.

But today this is what happened. I was at work and someone was mean to me. I have a senior position and I was dealing with a rather silly woman (not the same one as last week) who was throwing a little wobbler. Because I am now a boss type person she felt able to vent at me and throw misdirected anger at me. She said horrid and unkind things about me and even as she spoke I knew that her rage was misplaced and I could hear her whilst knowing that what she said was not true or fair. I did not like what she said and it hurt for a moment but it did not go into me. I did not feel angry or accept what she said as true.

Writing this now, just hours later I cannot recall what she said at all. A few months ago I would have internalised every word and taken all her barbs as truth. I would not have been able to shake those words off for months, maybe years.

I get told off when I am bad. I am bad sometimes and I have faults. But I know what my faults are and I am able to say sorry for them. I am able to accept blame for things that I do.

Untrue words can’t hurt me like they used to. People being unkind can’t hurt me like they used to. This is because I am able to submit to a man that loves me and is brave enough to look me in the eye and tell me just what he thinks. The whole world feels kinder and safer because of that.

Submission has set me free. I am a happy girl.

I hope that you are happy too.

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