If you are going to spank us very hard indeed, like with a hairbrush, then please rest your big, strong manly hand to keep us calm and steady.
An even better tip is to take a girl on your lap and snuggle and kiss her until she is all yours forever and ever.
So disciplined – the girl I mean – some need their hand(s) held. Good for those who can take it so well
I need my hand held if I am spanked very hard but a firm hand on the back makes a big difference too. Like a comforting strength.
I like the last option – cuddle and snuggle, no paddle.
Me too, shall we hold out hope for that?
Mindy, great idea, but cuddle, snuggle and huddle (as aftercare) an sometimes work as well.
For after care, I want more than a snuggle and a cuddle. I want kisses and lots of them.
The two procedures are not at all mutually exclusive, but of course should be performed consecutively.
Yes, Dev but not so thoroughly, well the second one should be very thorough but the first one not at all.
How about a little of the first and lots of the last.
Exactly! Spot on!
Poppy, good morning.
and warm 
I’m not a great fan of wood, it tends to bruise.
I prefer more flexible implements, I have been told that my hand is very hard.
Yes the girl will often need the calming influence of his hand on her back.
The best thing about the hand is that it is multi-purpose.
I think that both Imp and Top will both agree that the second part is the better part.
Have a good Sunday
Love
Paul.
I am having a lovely day. I am catching up with lots of things and then will have some time to scribble.
I am not a fan of being bruised either.
I am seconding Kaki. Really, really little of the first, but copious amounts of the second..
You see! We girls all agree. We are wise and should be listened to.
@ Devlin I hope your presence has a subduing effect, things have been out of had with all the talk of tanks, buses, tractors and padded pants.
Its difficult to see from the angle in the picture but I think she is saying
” Harder Sir…”
Cruel
She is saying, “But it was not me, it was Scarlet!”
Thanks, Cruel, but my calming effect is temporary at best.
Just referring back a post, here is a really good jeans spanking clip from Au fil des jours —
http://myblogstany.blogspot.com/2011/03/suivre-les-regles.html
Thank you Devlin, I found that very informative.
There were several steadying hand holds that I had not considered during the jeans segment. ( In particular the grasping of surplus denim at the waistline)
During the panty segment it seemed that he was using the material of the panties as a demarcation line so not to redden that area. During the bare bottom segment this line was crossed. adding a suntan type colage of redness that was quite artistic
It was during this period I noticed the steadying hand clenching the buttocks together as one. ( Something I had not previously concidered) but will now include in my repertoire.
Finally during the grand finaly I noticed she was still compliant…. well almost until the end. I can only conclude that begining with jeans and progressing down to bare bottom has somewhat soothing effect on brats. This would allow us Tops to properly administer corrective actions for what seems to be a blossoming proliferance of brats. Spring indeed is fast approaching
So thank you for sharing as in these difficult times we Tops must stick together
Cruel
I watched ten seconds of it and then hid. If someone needs me, I am under the table.
Poppy, If your hiding under the table chance are your nether bits are prominently exposed like an ostrich with her head in the sand.
Secondly if you are going to hide maybe you shouldn’t advertise the location
Good point.
I am no longer under the table.
I am somewhere else entirely.
The girl in the spanking clip should have bought her jeans from Top Notch Products.
Poppy, if the girl is saying “it was Scarlet,” then the top is saying, “How could you try to throw sweet little Scarlet under the bus? Why, wait just a gopher stomping minute!”
I am trying to be good and failing (doing homework) but what you wrote made me chortle.
I needed to tell you that I am chortling right now.
Dev will not tell me off for chortling.
I will not tell you off for chortling, Poppy, but shut your computer right now and finish your homework. I mean it, young lady.
Scarlet, that was rather amusing, although I can’t for the life of me think what Top would say such a thing – well, not the first part anyway.
Cruel, very glad you found that source material informative.