There is entirely too much talk of obedience and goodness around at the moment.
I want to be good (being called a ‘good girl’ by a certain someone does make me feel happy and small in the best way) and I do want to obey but after thinking about being good and obedient for a little while I find myself starting to turn a little and having thoughts that could not be called good or obedient at all.
I think that it is a little odd that last Sunday when I was doing much scribbling for my blog I wrote two posts (for Friday and Saturday coming) pretty much on the topic of obedience. In fact I think that one of them may even be called “Obedience.”
Since then I have read lots and thought lots on that very topic and now I appear to be turning the other way.
Sadly it is Thursday and I am tired and beaten down from work. I am out tonight (and all I want to do is have a bath and a cuddle and go to bed) and so I will use my last bit of energy being alive and talkative. I simply have no energy to be naughty.
But soon …..
A girl can only be good for so long before she becomes dull and that would never do.
What are the chances of being able to get away with a few little bits of misbehaviour for the good of my mental health do you think?
Poppy, I like it when a girl is a little naughty, but unfortunately girls seem to be easily carried away with their high spirits.
When this happens the application of hand or other implement to the appropriate target is necessary to slow them down a little.
Are you prepared for this. WEG
Warm hugs,
Paul.
Paul,
I have been good for days and days and days now. I think people get bored by this and I am here to help.
I feel certain that Himself will be so relieved to have some normality that he will applaud and appeciate me, the only hand on skin will be clapping!
Warm hugs right back at you!
In answer to your final query – slim and nil.
Bum and poo.
Well a girl has to try doesn't she?
It is a good job I heed warnings and revert right back to being perfect.
Anyone buying that?
*sounds of crickets in the stillness*
Anyone else think the first photo looks like Pauley Perrette from 'NCIS'?
further *sounds of crickets in the stillness*
no one else watches NCIS, just you.
And silence from fellow girls is a sign of agreement- they do not want me to be caught, they want me to get away with stuff
Sigh, ok here's my problem, which might not at all be the same as yours, but maybe…
I am a very 'good girl' and always have been. Way too good. I don't want to be as good as I am because yes, it feels really unexciting. My husband assures me he has never had an unexciting day with me..but that is besides the point. I get tired of myself, and I get this yen to be, sometimes, what I never was…bad.
On the other hand, when I wrote about this a while ago, and talked to him, he said he thinks everyone fantasizes about being "bad" sometimes. Even him. Bad boys and bad girls are romanticized. At times he wishes he didn't have to be responsible… "But then where would that leave you?" he asked. "How would you feel if I didn't put you first?" Huh, imagine that. It kind of takes the wind out if my sails when I get the urge to think of me first, too. Play is one thing, but intentionally breaking rules, being defiant…nah. It is not worth the loss of trust.
I never liked the idea of "obedience", nor did he, frankly. What it has come down to is cooperation with our agreements, the lifestyle, and a commitment to live a certain way. In one way that sounds all too serious…but then what is the alternative?
It's good to be bad sometimes I think. It's important to get it out of your system. Yep. Also if you can perfect being naughty and not getting caught that is good too, although most of the time, the real fun comes from getting caught. It depends what you have in mind when you say you want to misbehave.
Hi Samigurumi!
I think that you and Sara between you are reading my mind. I am going to write properly on the topic of "Disobedience" soon.
Right after I have drunk Friday amounts of wine.
Hi, you have a nice blog here!
I wonder if you like exchange links betwen our blogs.
Best regards
Enzo